tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520849174973581756.post5157333864752820297..comments2023-08-23T06:09:37.861-05:00Comments on chambanachik: A Plea for Graceerikahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09432371971747985519noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520849174973581756.post-57268137816306962822013-09-09T05:40:39.378-05:002013-09-09T05:40:39.378-05:00this is so universal. but rest assured that as har...this is so universal. but rest assured that as hard as this phase is, she will still think you are the best mama every night when she goes to sleep. and she will grow into a sweet girl (and less of a toddler-monster hybrid as they all are at one point or another), and you will swell with pride at the little person you have raised. hang in there, mama, kids know when we're doing our best and they don't hold grudges (at least until they're teens).B @ then there was wehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01723192097396352841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520849174973581756.post-29173667035884010982013-09-08T13:06:55.103-05:002013-09-08T13:06:55.103-05:00Motherhood is filled with so much joy, but also qu...Motherhood is filled with so much joy, but also quite a few challenges. There are days when it seems like I will never get the hang of it all but I just try to remind myself that each day is a learning experience. You are a great mom Erika, there's no doubt in my mind about that. I'm sure its difficult finding the balance with two children, especially when one is a newborn and requires so much attention 24/7. God sees you trying so hard each day and knows what's in your heart. :)Brittneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03826972932495686229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520849174973581756.post-5660228514581904532013-09-05T11:57:02.324-05:002013-09-05T11:57:02.324-05:00You are not alone. I felt threes were a LOT harder...You are not alone. I felt threes were a LOT harder than twos with our son. I think they are tryig to find their independence and with that comes power struggles. I'm sure you are doing an amazing job. I have also noticed, our children test our patience on a daily basis, but our angels for others. <br />No one is perfect and as long as you are doing your best and putting your children first (which I know you are) then you're doing a great job!!! Keep your chin up! Kathryn Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02499609793874290520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520849174973581756.post-82890227389938461572013-09-05T10:01:37.368-05:002013-09-05T10:01:37.368-05:00oh, lady. there is grace all over this. you are pe...oh, lady. there is grace all over this. you are persevering. and she will remember all of the times that you apologize, probably more than the reasons you had to.<br /><br />because no one is perfect. and you're showing her how to work through our brokenness. friend, that is a gift for us to give to our children. we are playing out the gospel for them. and that is a painful, but beautiful calling.<br /><br />and the threes? goodness, they are no joke.ash schlaxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12670991628631432879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520849174973581756.post-32616813533049993862013-09-05T09:50:52.399-05:002013-09-05T09:50:52.399-05:00Sending some virtual hugs! You are a wonderful mam...Sending some virtual hugs! You are a wonderful mama, and Millie is such a doll (I'm sure Walter is a total doll, too, but I haven't met him yet). Erika, you are one of my mama idols; I know I'm not alone, and so many people look up to you and aspire to show their kids the love you show your kids and so eloquently put into words on your blog. Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09540357391500090255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520849174973581756.post-85083833487456120632013-09-05T09:40:42.580-05:002013-09-05T09:40:42.580-05:00I am right there with you. Yesterday I lost my pat...I am right there with you. Yesterday I lost my patience and actually said "get away from me!" and then I felt like the worst mother ever. I probably apologize to her 10 times a day. She wants my attention and I want to give it to her but I can't 24/7. We get compliments all the time from friends about how polite and what a sweet girl she is, because she is. Motherhood is hard and this morning I woke up telling myself it would be a good day and that I wouldn't lose my patience, so far it's going good but it's only 10:40am. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520849174973581756.post-27938706257160047132013-09-05T08:32:10.744-05:002013-09-05T08:32:10.744-05:00Oh, Erika. You are not alone in these feelings. Pa...Oh, Erika. You are not alone in these feelings. Parenting is so, so hard, and I can guarantee you that there is not a single one of us who feel like we are doing it 'right'. But I can also guarantee you that you are doing a wonderful job. Your children are happy, well-cared for, and they know that they are loved - and in the end that is all that matters. I know the uncertainties and guilt and desire to be more, give more, love more...but let those sweet moments like Millie's comment carry you through the rough patches. Your children love you, and you ARE their greatest mama. <3Erin B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11377413466101872955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520849174973581756.post-55728244209804969662013-09-05T08:14:15.278-05:002013-09-05T08:14:15.278-05:00Hang in there. Motherhood is a bumpy road, but the...Hang in there. Motherhood is a bumpy road, but there's plenty of smooth spots!Chantalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09543581308363689982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520849174973581756.post-54471661203965683932013-09-04T23:53:05.359-05:002013-09-04T23:53:05.359-05:00The story of my parenting life. You are not alone ...The story of my parenting life. You are not alone my friend. ((hugs))Marcella{The Life After "Trust Me"}https://www.blogger.com/profile/02567040738526028857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520849174973581756.post-28420595189816743182013-09-04T22:48:26.294-05:002013-09-04T22:48:26.294-05:00Hugs! This is exactly how I've been feeling th...Hugs! This is exactly how I've been feeling the past year (since Oskar was born). Every day I go to bed so sure I'm screwing my kids up. Then I go out in public and realize just how good they really are. But it's still hard. This parenting thing is a big responsibility! I think us mamas need one big giant group hug. (wouldn't that be a sight to see? drive by the playground and see all the moms hugging each other...)jax from the harmon squadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17520741726138853596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520849174973581756.post-59316495613752205842013-09-04T22:46:32.407-05:002013-09-04T22:46:32.407-05:00I'm sure my two girlfriends are probably throw...I'm sure my two girlfriends are probably throwing in the towel and will become subscribers of your blog because I email them so many of your posts. I told them that you eloquently write the thoughts I am thinking. Well done my blog sister, well done. amy pikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07011948746040136273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520849174973581756.post-78421591189801616532013-09-04T22:46:19.572-05:002013-09-04T22:46:19.572-05:00Have you ever heard of Carol Tuttle? You should lo...Have you ever heard of Carol Tuttle? You should look into her work as an energy profiler person. She's written a few books (One called the Child Whisperer for parents) but her ideology on energy profiling is really interesting and has totally given me a new way to figure out the best way to deal with kids (since I teach so many little dancers) and adults alike. Might be worth looking into? The whole thing is kind of a lot but the general idea behind it might peg where the conflict is happening between the two of you. <br />I will definitely be thinking good thoughts of grace for you :) <3Erinn C.D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/01513546317036065267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5520849174973581756.post-55087930735950579892013-09-04T22:15:00.447-05:002013-09-04T22:15:00.447-05:00You are not alone. I swear our saving grace is G g...You are not alone. I swear our saving grace is G going to school {albeit it's a few hours a day}. He needs space from his mama, because it is his mama that brings out the rebellion in him. He is really a great kid, but he takes out any and all frustrations out on his constant- his mama. I hope you always remember that you are not a bad mom and losing patience is normal {and Healthy!} There will come a day when this seems like a distant memory. Hang in there!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16220579790177959992noreply@blogger.com